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		<title>That&#8217;s almost every state&#8230;&#8230;of Indiyeah !</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 05:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are two types of people in the world: those who choose to be happy, and those who choose to be unhappy. Contrary to popular belief, happiness doesn’t come from fame, fortune, other people, or material possessions. Rather, it comes from within. The richest person in the world could be miserable while a homeless person [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gpraveenkumar.wordpress.com&#038;blog=4593458&#038;post=1252&#038;subd=gpraveenkumar&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are two types of people in the world: those who choose to be happy, and those who choose to be unhappy. Contrary to popular belief, happiness doesn’t come from fame, fortune, other people, or material possessions. Rather, it comes from within. The richest person in the world could be miserable while a homeless person could be right outside, smiling and content with their life. Happy people are happy because they <i>make</i> themselves happy. They maintain a positive outlook on life and remain at peace with themselves.</p>
<p>The question is: how do they do that?</p>
<p>It’s quite simple. Happy people have good habits that enhance their lives. They do things differently. Ask any happy person, and they will tell you that they …</p>
<p><b>1. Don’t hold grudges.</b></p>
<p>Happy people understand that it’s better to forgive and forget than to let their negative feelings crowd out their positive feelings. Holding a grudge has a lot of detrimental effects on your wellbeing, including increased depression, anxiety, and stress. Why let anyone who has wronged you have power over you? If you let go of all your grudges, you’ll gain a clear conscience and enough energy to enjoy the good things in life.</p>
<p><b>2. Treat everyone with kindness.</b></p>
<p>Did you know that it has been scientifically proven that being kind makes you happier? Every time you perform a selfless act, your brain produces serotonin, a hormone that eases tension and lifts your spirits. Not only that, but treating people with love, dignity, and respect also allows you to build stronger relationships.</p>
<p><b>3. See problems as challenges.</b></p>
<p>The word “problem” is never part of a happy person’s vocabulary. A problem is viewed as a drawback, a struggle, or an unstable situation while a challenge is viewed as something positive like an opportunity, a task, or a dare. Whenever you face an obstacle, try looking at it as a challenge.</p>
<p><b>4. Express gratitude for what they already have.</b></p>
<p>There’s a popular saying that goes something like this: “The happiest people don’t have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.” You will have a deeper sense of contentment if you count your blessings instead of yearning for what you don’t have.</p>
<p><b>5. Dream big.</b></p>
<p>People who get into the habit of dreaming big are more likely to accomplish their goals than those who don’t. If you dare to dream big, your mind will put itself in a focused and positive state.</p>
<p><b>6. Don’t sweat the small stuff.</b></p>
<p>Happy people ask themselves, “Will this problem matter a year from now?” They understand that life’s too short to get worked up over trivial situations. Letting things roll off your back will definitely put you at ease to enjoy the more important things in life.</p>
<p><b>7. Speak well of others.</b></p>
<p>Being nice feels better than being mean. As fun as gossiping is, it usually leaves you feeling guilty and resentful. Saying nice things about other people encourages you to think positive, non-judgmental thoughts.</p>
<p><b>8. Never make excuses.</b></p>
<p>Benjamin Franklin once said, “He that is good for making excuses is seldom good for anything else.” Happy people don’t make excuses or blame others for their own failures in life. Instead, they own up to their mistakes and, by doing so, they proactively try to change for the better.</p>
<p><b>9. Get absorbed into the present.</b></p>
<p>Happy people don’t dwell on the past or worry about the future. They savor the present. They let themselves get immersed in whatever they’re doing at the moment. Stop and smell the roses.</p>
<p><b>10. Wake up at the same time every morning.</b></p>
<p>Have you noticed that a lot of successful people tend to be early risers? Waking up at the same time every morning stabilizes your circadian rhythm, increases productivity, and puts you in a calm and centered state.</p>
<p><b>11. Avoid social comparison.</b></p>
<p>Everyone works at his own pace, so why compare yourself to others? If you think you’re better than someone else, you gain an unhealthy sense of superiority. If you think someone else is better than you, you end up feeling bad about yourself. You’ll be happier if you focus on your own progress and praise others on theirs.</p>
<p><b>12. Choose friends wisely.</b></p>
<p>Misery loves company. That’s why it’s important to surround yourself with optimistic people who will encourage you to achieve your goals. The more positive energy you have around you, the better you will feel about yourself.</p>
<p><b>13. Never seek approval from others.</b></p>
<p>Happy people don’t care what others think of them. They follow their own hearts without letting naysayers discourage them. They understand that it’s impossible to please everyone. Listen to what people have to say, but never seek anyone’s approval but your own.</p>
<p><b>14. Take the time to listen.</b></p>
<p>Talk less; listen more. Listening keeps your mind open to others’ wisdoms and outlooks on the world. The more intensely you listen, the quieter your mind gets, and the more content you feel.</p>
<p><b>15. Nurture social relationships.</b></p>
<p>A lonely person is a miserable person. Happy people understand how important it is to have strong, healthy relationships. Always take the time to see and talk to your family, friends, or significant other.</p>
<p><b>16. Meditate.</b></p>
<p>Meditating silences your mind and helps you find inner peace. You don’t have to be a zen master to pull it off. Happy people know how to silence their minds anywhere and anytime they need to calm their nerves.</p>
<p><b>17. Eat well.</b></p>
<p>Junk food makes you sluggish, and it’s difficult to be happy when you’re in that kind of state. Everything you eat directly affects your body’s ability to produce hormones, which will dictate your moods, energy, and mental focus. Be sure to eat foods that will keep your mind and body in good shape.</p>
<p><b>18. Exercise.</b></p>
<p>Studies have shown that exercise raises happiness levels just as much as Zoloft does. Exercising also boosts your self-esteem and gives you a higher sense of self-accomplishment.</p>
<p><b>19. Live minimally.</b></p>
<p>Happy people rarely keep clutter around the house because they know that extra belongings weigh them down and make them feel overwhelmed and stressed out. Some studies have concluded that Europeans are a lot happier than Americans are, which is interesting because they live in smaller homes, drive simpler cars, and own fewer items.</p>
<p><b>20. Tell the truth.</b></p>
<p>Lying stresses you out, corrodes your self-esteem, and makes you unlikeable. The truth will set you free. Being honest improves your mental health and builds others’ trust in you. Always be truthful, and never apologize for it.</p>
<p><b>21. Establish personal control.</b></p>
<p>Happy people have the ability to choose their own destinies. They don’t let others tell them how they should live their lives. Being in complete control of one’s own life brings positive feelings and a great sense of self-worth.</p>
<p><b>22. Accept what cannot be changed.</b></p>
<p>Once you accept the fact that life is not fair, you’ll be more at peace with yourself. Instead of obsessing over how unfair life is, just focus on what you can control and change it for the better.<br /><strong>If you’d like to see more posts like these, follow my blog or share with your friends below! Thanks!</strong><br /><strong>Kris</strong></p>
<p>Here’s the link to the blog where I found this information: <a href="http://positiveway.wordpress.com/2012/10/31/22-things-happy-people-do-differently/">22 Things Happy People Do Differently</a>.</p>
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		<title>Why am I an Hindu?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2013 04:36:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Hindu was flying from JFK New York Airport to SFO San Francisco Airport CA to attend a meeting at Monterey, CA. An American girl was sitting on the right side, near window seat. It indeed was a long journey &#8211; it would take nearly seven hours. He was surprised to see the young girl [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gpraveenkumar.wordpress.com&#038;blog=4593458&#038;post=1248&#038;subd=gpraveenkumar&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A Hindu was flying from JFK New York Airport to SFO San Francisco Airport CA to attend a meeting at Monterey, CA.<br />
An American girl was sitting on the right side, near window seat. It indeed was a long journey &#8211; it would take nearly seven hours.</p>
<p>He was surprised to see the young girl reading a Bible unusual of young Americans. After some time she smiled and we had few acquaintances talk.He told her that I am from India</p>
<p>Then suddenly the girl asked: &#8216;What&#8217;s your faith?&#8217; &#8216;What?&#8217; He didn&#8217;t understand the question.</p>
<p>&#8216;I mean, what&#8217;s your religion? Are you a Christian? Or a Muslim?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;No!&#8217; He replied, &#8216;He am neither Christian nor Muslim&#8217;.</p>
<p>Apparently she appeared shocked to listen to that. &#8216;Then who are you?&#8217; “I am a Hindu”, He said.</p>
<p>She looked at him as if she was seeing a caged animal. She could not understand what He was talking about.</p>
<p>A common man in Europe or US knows about Christianity and Islam, as they are the leading religions of the world today.</p>
<p>But a Hindu, what?</p>
<p>He explained to her &#8211; I am born to a Hindu father and Hindu mother. Therefore, I am a Hindu by birth.</p>
<p>&#8216;Who is your prophet?&#8217; she asked.</p>
<p>&#8216;We don&#8217;t have a prophet,&#8217; He replied.</p>
<p>&#8216;What&#8217;s your Holy Book?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;We don&#8217;t have a single Holy Book, but we have hundreds and thousands of philosophical and sacred scriptures,&#8217;<br />
He replied.</p>
<p>&#8216;Oh, come on at least tell me who is your God?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;What do you mean by that?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Like we have Jesus and Muslims have Allah &#8211; don&#8217;t you have a God?&#8217;</p>
<p>He thought for a moment. Muslims and Christians believe one God (Male God) who created the world and takes an interest in the humans who inhabit it. Her mind is conditioned with that kind of belief.</p>
<p>According to her (or anybody who doesn&#8217;t know about Hinduism), a religion needs to have one Prophet, one Holy book and one God. The mind is so conditioned and rigidly narrowed down to such a notion that anything else is not acceptable. He understood her perception and concept about faith. You can&#8217;t compare Hinduism with any of the present leading religions where you have to believe in one concept of God.</p>
<p>He tried to explain to her: &#8216;You can believe in one God and he can be a Hindu. You may believe in multiple deities and still you can be a Hindu. What&#8217;s more &#8211; you may not believe in God at all, still you can be a Hindu. An Atheist can also be a Hindu.&#8217;</p>
<p>This sounded very crazy to her. She couldn&#8217;t imagine a religion so unorganized, still surviving for thousands of years, even after onslaught from foreign forces.</p>
<p>&#8216;I don&#8217;t understand but it seems very interesting. Are you religious?&#8217;</p>
<p>What can He tell to this American girl?</p>
<p>He said: &#8216;I do not go to Temple regularly. I do not make any regular rituals. I have learned some of the rituals in my younger days. I still enjoy doing it sometimes&#8217;.</p>
<p>&#8216;Enjoy? Are you not afraid of God?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;God is a friend. No- I am not afraid of God. Nobody has made any compulsions on me to perform these rituals regularly.&#8217;</p>
<p>She thought for a while and then asked: &#8216;Have you ever thought of converting to any other religion?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Why should I? Even if I challenge some of the rituals and faith in Hinduism, nobody can convert me from Hinduism. Because, being a Hindu allows me to think independently and objectively, without conditioning. I remain as a Hindu never by force, but choice.&#8217; He told her that Hinduism is not a religion, but a set of beliefs and practices. It is not a religion like Christianity or Islam because it is not founded by any one person or does not have an organized controlling body like the Church or the Order, I added. There is no institution or authority..</p>
<p>&#8216;So, you don&#8217;t believe in God?&#8217; she wanted everything in black and white.</p>
<p>&#8216;I didn&#8217;t say that. I do not discard the divine reality. Our scripture, or Sruthis or Smrithis &#8211; Vedas and Upanishads or the Gita &#8211; say God might be there or he might not be there. But we pray to that supreme abstract authority (Para Brahma) that is the creator of this universe.&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Why can&#8217;t you believe in one personal God?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;We have a concept &#8211; abstract &#8211; not a personal god. The concept or notion of a personal God, hiding behind the clouds of secrecy, telling us irrational stories through few men whom he sends as messengers, demanding us to worship him or punish us, does not make sense. I don&#8217;t think that God is as silly as an autocratic emperor who wants others to respect him or fear him.&#8217; He told her that such notions are just fancies of less educated human imagination and fallacies, adding that generally ethnic religious practitioners in Hinduism believe in personal Gods. The entry level Hinduism has over-whelming superstitions too. The philosophical side of Hinduism negates all superstitions.</p>
<p>&#8216;Good that you agree God might exist. You told that you pray. What is your prayer then?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Loka Samastha Sukino Bhavantu. Om Shanti, Shanti, Shanti,&#8217;<br />
लोका समस्ता सुखिनो भवन्तु !!! ॐ शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः !!!</p>
<p>&#8216;Funny,&#8217; she laughed, &#8216;What does it mean?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;May all the beings in all the worlds be happy. Let there be Peace, Peace,and Peace every where.&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Hmm ..very interesting. I want to learn more about this religion. It is so democratic, broad-minded and free&#8217; she exclaimed.</p>
<p>&#8216;The fact is Hinduism is a religion of the individual, for the individual and by the individual with its roots in the Vedas and the Bhagavad-Gita. It is all about an individual approaching a personal God in an individual way according to his temperament and inner evolution &#8211; it is as simple as that.&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;How does anybody convert to Hinduism?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;Nobody can convert you to Hinduism, because it is not a religion, but it is a Culture, a way of leaving life, a set of beliefs and practices. Everything is acceptable in Hinduism because there is no single Authority or Organization either to accept you or to reject you or to oppose you on behalf of Hinduism.&#8217;</p>
<p>He told her &#8211; if you look for meaning in life, don&#8217;t look for it in religions; don&#8217;t go from one cult to another or from one Guru to the next.</p>
<p>For a real seeker, He told her, the Bible itself gives guidelines when it says &#8216; Kingdom of God is within you.&#8217; I reminded her of Christ&#8217;s teaching about the love that we have for each other. That is where you can find the meaning of life.</p>
<p>Loving each and every creation of the God is absolute and real. &#8216;Isavasyam idam sarvam&#8217; Isam (the God) is present (inhabits) here everywhere &#8211; nothing exists separate from the God, because God is present everywhere. Respect every living being and non-living things as God. That&#8217;s what Hinduism teaches you.</p>
<p>Hinduism is referred to as Sanathana Dharma, the eternal faith. It is based on the practice of Dharma, the code of life. The most important aspect of Hinduism is being truthful to oneself. Hinduism has no monopoly on ideas. It is open to all. Hindus believe in one God (not a personal one) expressed in different forms. For them, God is timeless and formless entity.</p>
<p>Ancestors of today&#8217;s Hindus believe in eternal truths and cosmic laws and these truths are opened to anyone who seeks them. But there is a section of Hindus who are either superstitious or turned fanatic to make this an organized religion like others. The British coin the word &#8216;Hindu&#8217; and considered it as a religion.</p>
<p>He said: &#8216;Religions have become an MLM (multi-level- marketing) industry that has been trying to expand the market share by conversion. The biggest business in today&#8217;s world is Spirituality. Hinduism is no exception&#8217;</p>
<p>He said &#8220;I am a Hindu primarily because it professes Non-violence &#8211; &#8216;Ahimsa Paramo Dharma&#8217; means &#8211; Non violence is the highest duty. I am a Hindu because it doesn&#8217;t condition my mind with any faith system.</p>
<p>A man/woman who changes his/her birth religion to another religion is a fake and does not value his/her morals, culture and values in life.</p>
<p>Hinduism was the first religion originated.<br />
ॐ नमः शिवा</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What does love mean in this new age? Sudhish Kamath and Shonali Muthalaly make a case for the contemporary Valentine</p>
<p><img alt="People come, people go. Love stays. Forever. And ever." src="http://www.thehindu.com/multimedia/dynamic/01362/14BGMVDAY_1362613f.jpg" /></p>
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<p><b>HE SAYS:</b></p>
<p><b>Forever and ever?</b></p>
<p>Back in the day, before the invention of mobile phones, we used to talk, hang up and spend the rest of our time living a life. We shared it with people we loved because they were around you more than anyone else.</p>
<p>Like the mobile phone that replaced telephones, we are not attached or wired to anything anymore.</p>
<p>If you are young and born in the late Eighties or Nineties, you know the longest relationship most people have had is with their mobile phone.</p>
<p>Back when we had landlines, we rarely changed phones. Today, we change mobiles every year or two.</p>
<p>In many ways, these phones have become a metaphor for our love lives.</p>
<p>When it comes to love, the concept of forever has forever changed. Handwritten long love letters have been replaced by single character emoticons.</p>
<p>Like phones, the lifespan of relationships, is coming down every few years. There&#8217;s so much activity in our lives and our batteries are draining quicker than before.</p>
<p>When it stops working and can&#8217;t be fixed, you get rid of it and get a new one because you need it. You need it because you are used to it.</p>
<p>Close proximity with computers and mobile phones has only made us adapt and learn from machines. The inbox has become an extension of our mind space. We store information as files and delete what we don&#8217;t need.</p>
<p>We live online. Friends are on Facebook, people follow on Twitter and closest buddies on Whatsapp. And <i>Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind</i> is as simple as Unfriend, Unfollow, Block, Ignore and Blacklist.</p>
<p>The nineties said friends are the new family. Today, networks are the new friends. We spend more time on networks than with friends.</p>
<p>The need to belong and find acceptance within the network is superseding the need for relationships. With most urban youth having their first relationship at 16 or 18 and not ready to commit until they are 30 or 40, they don&#8217;t want to wait till they are married to get physical. Careers have become more important because it&#8217;s become more difficult to find a well-paying job than a relationship.</p>
<p>Once the most intense relationship breaks down, every relationship after that pales in comparison, leading to disillusionment, emptiness and a temporary void.</p>
<p>Like the end of a really good sad movie. Eject. Insert new disc.</p>
<p>Or shutdown. Log in.</p>
<p>I see dead people.</p>
<p>Yet&#8230; all it takes is a moment to bring a heart pounding back to life.</p>
<p>Heart. The most resilient thing ever. With a lifespan of over a 50 mobile phones. With an inbox so deep and limitless. With strength that can withstand the greatest of falls. It’s built to love. No matter how hard you try not to use it, you just cannot control it. Want a happily ever after? Surrender to it. It has an endless supply of love. Release it. And it will set you free.</p>
<p>People come, people go. Love stays. Forever. And ever.</p>
<p><b>SHE SAYS:</b></p>
<p><b>Why wait for forever?</b></p>
<p>Modern love is tough.</p>
<p>Perhaps that’s why Mr Right has been replaced with Mr ‘Right Now’.</p>
<p>Cynical? Not really. Perhaps we’re finally realising the significance of Carpe Diem. Seize the day. Live the moment. Luxuriate in the ‘Now’.</p>
<p>The world has changed. Love used to mean romance: poetry, roses, candle lit dinners. Boys begged common friends for your phone number. Wrote you ten page letters, with cute cartoons drawn in the margins. Composed songs for you, and strummed them on beat-up old guitars.</p>
<p>In the Nineties we fell in love and channelled the likes of Savage Garden: “I&#8217;ll be your hope, I&#8217;ll be your love be everything that you need/ I love you more with every breath, truly madly deeply do…” Contemporary chartbusters are very different. Think Eminem and Rihanna singing ‘Love the way you lie’: “Just gonna stand there and watch me burn/ But that&#8217;s alright, because I like the way it hurts/ Just gonna stand there and hear me cry/ But that&#8217;s alright, because I love the way you lie.”</p>
<p>Welcome to the free fall of modern love. Breathless. Relentless. Unapologetic.</p>
<p>So you’re in love. And out. You break a heart. Have your heart broken. Dump. Get dumped. Have a fling. Cheat. Experiment. Maintain ‘friends with benefits.’</p>
<p>It’s fast, it’s ruthless, it’s no holds barred. Speed dating, powered by technology. Relationships on steroids.</p>
<p>Girl meets boy. Girl googles boy. (And vice versa.) A little Facebook stalking, Whatsapp through the night, dates set via SMS. There goes the mystery. But not the drama. By date two, you’re half way through a relationship. Texting, sexting, booty calls. Love and lust, inextricably intertwined. Till it’s over. Till you’re at a party. Again. Exchanging BBM pins. Again. Here we go. Again.</p>
<p>Love at first sight? Please. You have got to be kidding. This isn’t a Jane Austen book. Or ‘Harry Met Sally’. Or a Celine Dion song. They seem so naïve today. Romance instagrammed: Charming – but far from real.</p>
<p>Love today is far more complex. An information overload, incessant connectivity, inescapable uncertainty.</p>
<p>But it’s still love. And it’s still real. And perhaps, it’s more resilient. Because, ironically, in this age of high-tempo relationships, we’re more understanding than ever before. After all, we’ve all ‘been there’. We know what it’s like to hurt. To cheat. To fall in love. Truly, madly, deeply.</p>
<p>So you’ve become more sceptical? It’s called growing up. Another bad relationship? It’ll make you appreciate the good ones. Had your heart broken again? Take pride in your courage to keep believing.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, enjoy the good times. Even if they’re temporary. Maybe Mr Right Now will turn out to be The One. Maybe he won’t.</p>
<p>But in the end you’ll realise that love hasn’t changed. Our generation is as infatuated with finding “the one” as our parents generation was. Only, our odds are better. After all, we’re more willing to take chances. More open to living life on our own terms. And modern love has made us so much braver.</p>
<p>Source : <a href="http://www.thehindu.com/features/metroplus/matters-of-the-heart/article4411108.ece">http://www.thehindu.com/features/metroplus/matters-of-the-heart/article4411108.ece</a></p>
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		<title>A Certain South Indian Childhood</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2013 01:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>&#8220;Of unremarked yet not unremarkable experience.&#8221;</p>
<p>via <a href="http://thepoetryof.wordpress.com/2012/11/29/a-certain-south-indian-childhood/">A Certain South Indian Childhood</a>.</p>
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		<title>Has the water entered my ship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2013 05:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 1923, nine of the wealthiest people in the world met at Chicago&#8217;s Edgewater Beach Hotel. Their combined wealth, it is estimated, exceeded the wealth of the Government of the United States at that time. These men certainly knew how to make a living and accumulate wealth. Attending the meeting were the following men: 1. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gpraveenkumar.wordpress.com&#038;blog=4593458&#038;post=1241&#038;subd=gpraveenkumar&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>In 1923, nine of the wealthiest people in the world met at Chicago&#8217;s<br />
Edgewater Beach Hotel. Their combined wealth, it is estimated,<br />
exceeded the wealth of the Government of the United States at that<br />
time.</p>
<p>These men certainly knew how to make a living and accumulate wealth.<br />
Attending the meeting were the following men:</p>
<p>1. The President of the largest steel company,<br />
2. The President of the largest utility company,<br />
3. The President of the largest gas company,<br />
4. The President of the New York Stock Exchange,<br />
5. The President of the Bank of International Settlements,<br />
6. The greatest wheat speculator,<br />
7. The greatest bear on Wall Street,<br />
8. A member of President Harding&#8217;s cabinet.<br />
9. The head of the World&#8217;s greatest monopoly</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a pretty impressive line-up of people by anyone&#8217;s yardstick</p></div>
<div>  Yet, let’s examine what happened to them 25 years later:</p>
<p>1. The President of the then largest steel company (Bethlehem Steel<br />
Corp), Charles M Schwab, lived on borrowed capital for five years<br />
before he died bankrupt.</p>
<p>2. The President of the largest utility company, Samuel Insull, died penniless!</p>
<p>3. The President of the then largest gas company, Howard Hubson, went insane.</p>
<p>4. The then President of the New York Stock Exchange, Richard Whitney,<br />
was sent to jail.</p>
<p>5. The President of the Bank of International Settlement, Leon Fraser,<br />
committed suicide.</p>
<p>6. One of the greatest commodity traders (Wheat Speculator) , Arthur<br />
Cutten, died insolvent.</p>
<p>7. The greatest “bear” on Wall Street, Jesse Livermore committed suicide.</p>
<p>8. The member of the US President’s Cabinet (the member of President<br />
Harding&#8217;s cabinet), Albert Fall, was pardoned from jail just to be<br />
able to go home and die in peace.</p>
<p>9. The President of the then world’s greatest monopoly, Ivar Krueger,<br />
committed suicide.</p>
<p>What they forgot was how to &#8220;make&#8221; life while they got busy making<br />
money! Money in itself is not evil. It is only a medium of exchange.</p>
<p>We need two kinds of education. One that teaches us how to make a<br />
living and the second how to live.</p>
<p>Many of us get so engrossed in professional life that we neglect our<br />
family, health, social responsibilities. And when asked why we do it,<br />
we would reply &#8220;For our family&#8221;</p></div>
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<div> However, our kids are sleeping when we leave home. They are sleeping<br />
when we come home! 25years later, we’ll turn back and they’ll be gone<br />
to pursue their own dreams and lives.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#000080;">Lessons from a Ship:</span></strong></p>
<p>Without water, a ship cannot move. It needs water but if the water<br />
gets into the ship, it will face existential problems. What was a<br />
“means of living” becomes a “means of destruction”.</p>
<p>Similarly we live in time where earning is a necessity but let not the<br />
earning enter our hearts, for what was once a means of living will<br />
surely become a means of destruction for us as well!</p>
<p><em><span style="color:#ff0000;">So take a moment to ask yourself:</span></em><br />
<em><span style="color:#ff0000;">“Has the water entered my ship?”</span></em></div>
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		<description><![CDATA[Time and again, I find some awesome Ted Video on either facebook, twitter, Quora or the Ted website itself. But, I have always wondered, it would be good, if I can find a list of such videos, so that when I am bored or at leisure, I could see them. Since, over time I din&#8217;t [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gpraveenkumar.wordpress.com&#038;blog=4593458&#038;post=1231&#038;subd=gpraveenkumar&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time and again, I find some awesome Ted Video on either facebook, twitter, Quora or the Ted website itself. But, I have always wondered, it would be good, if I can find a list of such videos, so that when I am bored or at leisure, I could see them. Since, over time I din&#8217;t find any, I thought I will make one such list and update it sporadically, hope you enjoy it.</p>
<p>PS : I found this, but since I have started this post, I am going to continue posting link of video, I see and like <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  <a href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AgsdFQlATsyYdEtnVHQ3alRsU1M5cVdsSFpEbVdlbFE&amp;hl=en#gid=0">https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/ccc?key=0AgsdFQlATsyYdEtnVHQ3alRsU1M5cVdsSFpEbVdlbFE&amp;hl=en#gid=0</a></p>
<p>(Note, they are not ordered. I keep appending new videos at the end.)</p>
<p>Ken Robinson says schools kill creativity - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html</a></p>
<p>Sir Ken Robinson: Bring on the learning revolution! - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/sir_ken_robinson_bring_on_the_revolution.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/sir_ken_robinson_bring_on_the_revolution.html</a></p>
<p>Dan Pink: The puzzle of motivation - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_pink_on_motivation.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_pink_on_motivation.html</a></p>
<p>Simon Sinek: How great leaders inspire action - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action.html</a></p>
<p>Pranav Mistry: The thrilling potential of SixthSense technology &#8211; <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/pranav_mistry_the_thrilling_potential_of_sixthsense_technology.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/pranav_mistry_the_thrilling_potential_of_sixthsense_technology.html</a></p>
<p>Helen Fisher: Why we love, why we cheat - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/jessa_gamble_how_to_sleep.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/jessa_gamble_how_to_sleep.html</a></p>
<p>Jessa Gamble: Our natural sleep cycle - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/jessa_gamble_how_to_sleep.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/jessa_gamble_how_to_sleep.html</a></p>
<p>Barry Schwartz: The paradox of choice - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/en/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/en/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice.html</a></p>
<p>Benjamin Zander: The transformative power of classical music - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/benjamin_zander_on_music_and_passion.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/benjamin_zander_on_music_and_passion.html</a></p>
<p>Hans Rosling: Stats that reshape your worldview - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/hans_rosling_shows_the_best_stats_you_ve_ever_seen.html">http://www.ted.com/talks/hans_rosling_shows_the_best_stats_you_ve_ever_seen.html</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2012 21:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The names : Sadyojatham Tatpurusham Vamadevam Eeshanam Agoram Thiruvadanam Source : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Bwi539ujIk (time 22.22) However, there is a slight controversy to the last name. It is also called Adhomugam ( Source : http://www.tamilbrahmins.com/translations-meanings/8231-need-information-lord-shivas-sixth-face.html). Some people believe it is beyond the comprehension of human mind, other proclaim four faces as the 4 directions, 5 th one facing [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gpraveenkumar.wordpress.com&#038;blog=4593458&#038;post=1226&#038;subd=gpraveenkumar&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The names :</p>
<p>Sadyojatham<br />
Tatpurusham<br />
Vamadevam<br />
Eeshanam<br />
Agoram<br />
Thiruvadanam</p>
<p>Source : <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Bwi539ujIk">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Bwi539ujIk</a> (time 22.22)</p>
<p>However, there is a slight controversy to the last name. It is also called Adhomugam ( Source : <a href="http://www.tamilbrahmins.com/translations-meanings/8231-need-information-lord-shivas-sixth-face.html)">http://www.tamilbrahmins.com/translations-meanings/8231-need-information-lord-shivas-sixth-face.html)</a>. Some people believe it is beyond the comprehension of human mind, other proclaim four faces as the 4 directions, 5 th one facing upwards and the 6 th one facing the earth and can&#8217;t be seen, while still other consider Godess Shakti as the sixth face.</p>
<p>But one this is for sure, he has six faces and six sparks from the 3rd eyes of six faces of Shiva resulted in the birth of Lord Murugan to Kill Suran (Sura Samharam).</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Great Living Chola Temple at Thanjavur. Click for more photos How many of us have a bucket list of places to go and things to do there but never get around to actually going there or doing them. Yahoo! India reader Thennarasu wrote to us with an invitation to his home state, Tamil Nadu, with this [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=gpraveenkumar.wordpress.com&#038;blog=4593458&#038;post=1223&#038;subd=gpraveenkumar&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>How many of us have a bucket list of places to go and things to do there but never get around to actually going there or doing them. Yahoo! India reader <strong>Thennarasu</strong> wrote to us with an invitation to his home state, Tamil Nadu, with this list of 50 things to do while you&#8217;re there.</p>
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<p>1. Eat a meal on a banana leaf — there&#8217;s a belief that it might cure Parkinson &#8216;s disease</p>
<p>2. Visit the Great Living Chola Temples, the UNESCO World Heritage Site dating back to the 10th century</p>
<p>3. Go to Ooty on the Nilgiri Mountain Railway — it is a UNESCO World Heritage Site and a legacy of remarkable British engineering</p>
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<p>4. Get blessed by an elephant — how often can you get one?</p>
<p>5. Visit the Cholamandalam Artists&#8217; Village, the pride of modern Tamil Art</p>
<p>6. Take an auto ride in Chennai. Chennai auto-drivers even have their own websites. Plus, it is the luxury of the middle-class.</p>
<p>7. Taste idli and dosa and wonder how many types of chutneys exist in Tamil Nadu. We are really a bunch of choosy pickers when it comes to idli and dosa!</p>
<p>8. Watch a Rajanikanth film in a movie theatre, if possible on the first day to understand the definition of hero worship!</p>
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<p>9. Participate in Jallikattu &#8212; bull taming &#8212; in Madurai. Or, if you&#8217;re chicken, just watch!</p>
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<p>10. Find and listen to your favourite Ilayaraja or A R Rahman song — everybody&#8217;s got to have one!</p>
<p>11. Men, sport a moustache. And women, plait your hair and decorate it with a garland of fragrant jasmine flowers!</p>
<p>12. Decorate the front of your house with kolam — a more decorative and artistic rendition of rangoli &#8212; and hang bunches of harvested paddy outside your home for the birds to feed on. (We have our own homegrown Kolam Picassos, and the patterns they come out with are astonishing!)</p>
<p>13. Drink strong filter coffee In a Tamil-style cup and saucer known as davarah and tumbler</p>
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<div><a href="http://in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/photos/mahabalipuram-s-gods-of-stone-slideshow/"><img title="The five rathas at Mahabalipuram. Click for more photos." alt="The five rathas at Mahabalipuram. Click for more photos." src="http://l1.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/P.Kv53L._3bo9iCYgGuAIw--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTYzMA--/http://l.yimg.com/os/401/2012/05/09/DSC-0190-jpg_060420.jpg" width="630" /></a>The five rathas at Mahabalipuram. Click for more photos.</div>
<p>14. Visit the shore temples of Mahabalipuram (another UNESCO World Heritage Site of the 7th century) and admire the art of sculpting in this little town</p>
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<p>15. Wander around to wonder at the Indo-Saracenic and Gothic style buildings of Chennai, some of which are over a hundred years old</p>
<p>16. Visit Pondicherry to marvel at the French Architecture (and our own French Connection)</p>
<p>17. Beat the heat by eating all your summer fruit glazed with a layer of salt-and-chilli-powder mixture! Cucumber, unripe mango, gooseberry, guava and pineapple taste best like this. And drink tender coconut or buttermilk or sugarcane juice to quench your thirst. And if you like it aerated, there&#8217;s Bovonto, our very own answer to Coca Cola!</p>
<p>18. Shop for beautiful silk sarees at Kancheepuram (the Chinese may have invented silk, but Tamils perfected it)</p>
<p>19. Celebrate Pongal by cooking sweet rice outdoors in clay pots or join the annual celebration of Elephant Pongal at Top Slip</p>
<p>20. Buy Horlicks for someone sick</p>
<p>21. Feed crows on special occasions</p>
<p id="yui-tmp-25">22. Whistle for Chennai Super Kings at M A Chidambaram stadium!</p>
<p>23. Attend Thiruvaiyaru Music Festival</p>
<p>24. Visit Pichavaram, the world&#8217;s second largest mangrove forests, for the Dawn Fest or Vidiyal Vizha</p>
<p>25. Sanctify your new dresses with turmeric</p>
<p id="yui-tmp-10"><img title="The imposing Matri Mandir at Auroville" alt="" src="http://l1.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/kCHTuNUHnhTk9FddFZXRNQ--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTE5MA--/http://l.yimg.com/os/401/2011/10/23/auroville_090517.jpg" width="190" />The imposing Matri Mandir at Auroville26. Visit Auroville, the international commune near Pondicherry</p>
<p>27. Visit the Toda tribal village in the Nilgiris (also learn about the other tribes &#8212; Badaga, Irula, Kota and Kurumba)</p>
<p>28. Go to Natyanjali Dance Festival celebrated at the 1,000-year-old Chidambaram temple near Cuddalore. The dance hall is adorned with pillars exhibiting the classic 108 poses of Lord Nataraja.</p>
<p>29. Go on a parisal (coracle) ride in Hogenakkal</p>
<p>30. Watch the magical kurinji flower bloom in Kodaikanal. It blooms every 12 years and the next bloom is in 2018</p>
<p>31. Widen your understanding of Tamil culture and architecture at Dakshina Chitra, Muttukadu</p>
<p>32. Go to Sittanavasal in Pudukkottai district to see some of the oldest Jain paintings</p>
<p>33. Visit the iconic Madurai Meenakshi temple</p>
<p>34. Ride into the Mudumalai Tiger Reserve on an elephant</p>
<p>35. Explore corals and other marine life in a glass-bottomed boat in the Gulf of Mannar Marine National Park</p>
<p>36. Visit Karaikudi to experience the vibrant Chettinad culture, architecture and food</p>
<p>37. Watch Theerthavari in Mahamaham Tank, Kumbakonam, held once in 12 years. A dip in the tank is believed to offer the combined benefits of a bath in all the sacred rivers. The next Mahamaham is in 2016.</p>
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<div><a href="http://in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/bowled-over-biryani-205910556.html"><img title="Dindigul near Madurai has earned the name of Biryani City. Click for more" alt="Dindigul near Madurai has earned the name of Biryani City. Click for more" src="http://l1.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/7lbF4GorBPtzysgm_PYkcw--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTYzMA--/http://l.yimg.com/os/401/2012/11/08/84465441-lambbiriyani-jpg_055802.jpg" width="630" /></a>Dindigul near Madurai has earned the name of Biryani City. Click for more</div>
<p>38. Taste some regional speciality dishes and snacks &#8212; Dindigul biryani, Manaparai muruku, Thirunelveli halwa, Madurai jigar thanda and Kumbakonam coffee</p>
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<p>39. Visit the Birla Science Planetarium in Chennai</p>
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<div><a href="http://in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/blogs/traveler/meghamalai-walk-clouds-051527541.html"><img title="A lake surrounded by tea gardens in Meghamalai. Click for more" alt="A lake surrounded by tea gardens in Meghamalai. Click for more" src="http://l1.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/_Uvv2gq74a0Smap2Lys7Og--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTYzMA--/http://l.yimg.com/os/401/2012/03/06/megha-malai-057-JPG_075638.jpg" width="630" /></a>A lake surrounded by tea gardens in Meghamalai. Click for more</div>
<p>40. Spot endangered wildlife in Meghamalai in Theni district. Meghamalai is also known for its spice tourism with a variety of plantations including tea, coffee, pepper, cardamom and cinnamon.</p>
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<p>41. Throw rice on the bride and groom at a Tamil wedding. Rice signifies prosperity and fertility</p>
<p>42. Buy a pair of Kuthu Vilakku — brass lamps &#8212; from Nachiyar Kovil in Kumbakonam. Every public event and home celebration begins only after these brass lamps are lit.</p>
<p>43. Witness the making of bronze statues using the traditional Lost-Wax process at Swamimalai near Kumbakonam</p>
<p>44. Join the Students&#8217; Sea Turtle Conservation Network (SSTCN) volunteers on a night walk along the beaches of Chennai to conserve and create awareness about the endangered Olive Ridley Sea Turtle.</p>
<p>45. Enjoy the panoramic view of Tiruchi and Srirangam from Tiruchi Malai Kotai Rock Fort</p>
<p>46. Get your picture on a street poster or a billboard for some reason (marriage, birthday, welcoming a political leader, coming-of-age ritual, ear-piercing ritual, or just to wish your favourite actor or sports star!)</p>
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<div><a href="http://in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/a-sea-of-pink-in-pulicat.html"><img title="Flamingos at Pulicat Lake. Photo: Lakshmi Sharath. Click for story" alt="Flamingos at Pulicat Lake. Photo: Lakshmi Sharath. Click for story" src="http://l2.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/_nA.NvKQQ8q1EPwl3mRvAQ--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTYzMA--/http://l.yimg.com/os/401/2012/02/06/pulicat-flamingos01-jpg_064656.jpg" width="630" /></a>Flamingos at Pulicat Lake. Photo: Lakshmi Sharath. Click for story</div>
<p>47. Go birdwatching in any of the birding hotspots &#8212; Vedanthangal , Pulicat Lake, Kunthakulam or Point Calimere</p>
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<p>48. Taste the Mukkani &#8212; three supreme and heavenly fruits &#8212; mango, jackfruit and banana</p>
<p>49. Try to know your future from Nadi Jothidam &#8211; these are palm manuscript horoscopes written hundreds of years ago for every individual on earth. Or try parrot astrology or palmistry.</p>
<p>50. Walk amidst lush green paddy fields</p>
<p><strong><em>Thennarasu is a BPO employee who works in Chennai. Originally from Kumbakonam, his interests include travel, photography, meeting new people, bird-watching and cooking.</em></strong></p>
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